Check out http://www.beyondconsequences.com/ My friend IRL Denise suggested it to me. There is some very interesting information. My attachment therapist recommended her book Beyond Consequences, Logic and Control. I have not read it yet but hear it is an approach that works intensely on the trauma. In my opinion this in no way contradicts and is not better than approaches by Nancy Thomas, Foster Cline or any of the current leaders in this field. It is a different approach. When something is not working with your kids, try something different. I feel this is true academically and emotionally as well. Anyway, this book and her approach seem to be all the rage around here. So if any of you have read it and would like to leave a comment (Denise or any others) I'd love to hear about it.