"But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 (NIV)
Our society promotes excelling in all things. Kids who excell in sports, music, academics, behavior. Moms who are on every committee at school, are in every church function and in charge of half of them, run a business,have spotless houses and manage it all with a smile.
Don't buy into it. God brought these children with broken hearts into our lives. It is ok to be weak and allow Him to work through those weaknesses. I give Him many opportunities.
Have a healing day!