One of you suggested the book Teaching Your Child the Language of Social Success. Please stand and wave your hand. I started reading it last night and I am really impressed with this book. It is not just a little book with photos of faces that are happy, sad, etc. It is information on how to assess where your child is in the "social skills reading" and has some real practical advice. I can't wait to get started. It is by far the most methodical thorough book on the topic I have seen.