Sunday, September 19, 2010

RAD assumptions

I did it again. Today I was hanging light in our house. I could not find a couple of parts. I was quite sure one of my RADlings had something to do with their disappearance. They are collectors of all things and build a lot of whatsamajiggers with the parts they take.  I asked Taz if he had seen them. He said no.. I was about ready to go find Bear when I saw the parts.....on the spoon rest where I had put them so they wouldn't get lost.

It is so easy to read into their words anger, their actions deviousness and assume missing/broken/damaged items are becuase of them.  I tell myself time and time again I will give them benfit of the doubt and then I do it again.

They have enough stuff going on without me giving them extra.

And so tomorrow is a new day. I choose to assume the best!

5 comments:

GB's Mom said...

Great idea! I will try it today :)

Becky said...

I have the same thing going on at my house. Today I wanted to fill the candy dish and found the candy I stored in the cupboard was gone. I said out loud "Okay, who ate the candy?" My RADling son spoke up and actually confessed he ate it. That made me smile.

Erika said...

Sometimes when I ask, I make it a joke so no one thinks it's serious. Following my cue, my children sometimes pretend to be scratching their noses while pointing to the culprit. I then add a bit for dramatic effect, maybe faint out of disbelief, give a hug, then if child is regulated (and these days they usually are), I give the limit so that the next time, ...

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