I am back home and we are slowly getting back on track. Bear and I have talked. He is still as angry as ever but does want to be in our family. We will start working on what that looks like over the coming week. He needs to find joy in his life. We will work on specific spiritual, personal and physical goals that I think will at least help him find some happiness in spite of his lack of attachment. Seventeen is a tough RAD stage folks. Thanks for your prayers and support. It was comforting to know I had them as I was away.