We have mixed reviews at our house. Taz is slowly settling down and has fewer and fewer episodes of anger. Bear is escalating. I really think he needs a job. He will be 17 in a couple of weeks. I need to take him out again this afternoon to pick up applications again. We were told he had a summer job through a special program this summer but they ran out before they got to his application.
I do find keeping them busy and separated the key. Mine are old enough that I can drop one off at the library or the Y Pool or the WaterPark for a little while. Only one at each place though and not too often. We are on our way to the psychiatrist and then counseling today. It is always a draining kind of day but we just do it. Like Nike I guess.