My goodness. We have had so much RAD behavior since we came home from our trip on January 12. It has escalated daily. I have tried every thing I can think of and NOTHING has made a bit of difference. Taz has had made some very strong attachment in the past so I knew down deep that we would get to him eventually. I was just shocked it was taking so long. I emailed our attachment therapist who we have not seen in many months. Taz was promoted out of attachment therapy. He suggested getting him to EMDR therapy. Once again I saw the miracle of EMDR happen right before my eyes. I am such a believer in the calming effect on this therapy in dealing with trauma. It is so worth checking into!! It has not worked with Bear in the past but he is not open about his feelings either.
Here is some info on EMDR: http://www.emdr.com/
If you would like to find someone who uses EMDR in their therapy just google the name of your state and EMDR therapy like this "Nebraska, EMDR therapy". The person should specialize in people who have suffered trauma and completed 2 levels of training. They generally state this.
I'd just like to say here and now "JOAN ROCKS". (our EMDR therapist)