Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Love

Reminder for me. Reminder for you. I'm going to focus on the basics.



12 hugs a day

loving eye contact

being attuned



Let the arguments go. Winning is NOT winning an argument. It is loving in a therputic manner that brings your child to healing. I do believe that ultimately all healing comes from God. He uses us when we are willing.

9 comments:

ali said...

12 hugs a day??? he'd go kill himself.

Rick said...

Good advice for any parent of any child.

P.S. Are you following me? Thanks

Brenda said...

Ali,

They can be quick, side ways hugs. If he can't take hugs they can be a high five or a pat. Whatever they are ready for.

Rick,

Bwahahahahah!

Karen Deborah said...

I want 12 hugs a day, at least maybe more. Just get in your pajamas and stay in them.

Brenda said...

Karen Deborah,

Well tomorrow I am going to the Zoo in Omaha, might look kind of funny. Maybe Friday!

ali said...

i will try. he will ask his usual "what are you doing" LOL

Brenda said...

Ali,

"Just lovin ya son."

Rachelle said...

Have fun at the zoo! You should probably leave your jammies at home, but....you could wear the fuzzy slippers : )

Unspeakable Joy said...

this week our preacher said win the relationship, not the argument. working on it... working on it...