We all need to find ways to reenergize ourselves. Awhile back hubby and I met a couple we used to live near in a town half way between for dinner. We had the best time and sat the at Gristani's for 2 hours catching up on old times. He is a visitation Pastor in a church. He said that people are introverts or extroverts. I'm thinking "well yes. I am an extrovert." Not so easy. He said the way we renergize ourselves can be completely different than our social personality.
So I stopped to think about what things I do to relax and pull myself back together. They are ALL solitary activities. In that sense I am an introvert. It is good to know because now when I feel overwhelmed and try to regain some sanity I know solitary activites work so much better for me.
If I say "What activities really calm you?" Stop and think....Is it personal/spiritual reflection, going for a walk, reading a book and dong some type of a craft like drawing, crochet, etc.? Or is is getting together with friends to talk and/or pray, going for lunch with someone else, and being around a lot of people? We are all different. Figuring out what makes us tick makes us emotionally mature and better able to face the tough stuff. So which are you?
I am a social extrovert, but to reenergize and need to be alone.
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Very interesting, Brenda. Hmmm...I'll have to ponder that one a while.
I just found your blog the other day so thought I would chime in :) I like cross-stitching and scrapbooking. I also like gardening and walking outside. All. Alone. But usually the kids are around.:)
like lots of physical activities, but sky diving actually calms me! what does that say about my brain?!!!
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You are very brave!
That's interesting...
I know people tend to see me as a social extrovert but I kind of wonder about that. Yes, I can be but inside I've never really been comfortable with it. I had to learn those skills due to being an army brat. I guess if I were a true introvert though, I wouldn't bother learning how to stick myself out there.
I definitely have to have alone time to reenergize.
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