Our children were traumatized at a very early age. Here are some websites on how trauma can be treated. Some are on how trauma changes the brain. If you are like me you tend to look for information on Reactive Attachment Disorder. This is good information as well.
http://www.tlcinst.org/ The National Institue for Trauma and Loss in Children
http://www.childtrauma.com/inf.html Child Trauma Institute
http://www.traumaresources.org/ Trauma Resources
http://www.childtrauma.org/ctamaterials/Principles2.asp Child Trauma Academy
http://www.angelfire.com/biz3/news/v1art1.html Helping Children Understand Trauma
It sometimes helps me to remember my children have been traumatized. They suffered horrifically at a very early age through things no adult would want to experience. We must be loving, kind and gentle. It is hard to remember this when I see the angry teen before me. It is true never the less. Have a healing day.