Which way is it? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Everyone talks about the brick wall kids with RAD have built up round them. I think sometimes it is like the force field Invisible girl has in front of her. I can't get in. But then sometimes I feel like I am invisible and he doesn't see me. Doesn't see who I am. Can't see who I am. Whichever way it is, would you believe it is a sign of improvement? It used to be that I was the enemy. To be feared, shunned and blocked at every opportunity. As he slowly begins to trust my son is getting closer, quieter but still doesn't see me. He is mulling it over. Our youngest son did the same before he had his breakthrough. It is a transition time between total chaos /fear and trust. I hope not to be Invisible Mom for long, but it is better then when I was The Thing!