tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post4467110384679682909..comments2023-11-20T06:44:48.331-06:00Comments on LIVING WITH RAD: RAD fearBrendahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05811548306583601019noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-85974499905193604462009-02-16T07:15:00.000-06:002009-02-16T07:15:00.000-06:00Well said Matthew! Taz is giving back as he is he...Well said Matthew! Taz is giving back as he is healing and that is a wonderful thing to watch. Bear will sometimes do things for us but he gives this very stern, parental "Now say thank you" attitude when he does it. It some how seems to be about him.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811548306583601019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-74704798735855035632009-02-16T00:14:00.000-06:002009-02-16T00:14:00.000-06:00I understand the hyper-vigilance you experienced t...I understand the hyper-vigilance you experienced today. It is astonishing how defensive and how desperate RAD kids can be, all at once. Most people don't really understand RAD behaviour-I wrote a blog post recently on these behaviours and how others perceive them.<BR/><BR/>Our kids are threatened by the idea of giving back. They don't know how to give back.<BR/><BR/>http://traumaadoption.org/adopt/content/friends-and-family-do-they-understandAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com