tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post251149603609698649..comments2023-11-20T06:44:48.331-06:00Comments on LIVING WITH RAD: RAD logic or lack there ofBrendahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05811548306583601019noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-67859369536670500902009-02-26T17:45:00.000-06:002009-02-26T17:45:00.000-06:00We have a new game now...if she says something nic...We have a new game now...if she says something nice to me; I pretend to faint. She gave me a hug yesterday just so I could pretend to faint and she could laugh....maybe saying something nice will seem more attractive..matryoshkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04159644735944561441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-83632534986859598512009-02-25T22:59:00.000-06:002009-02-25T22:59:00.000-06:00I noticed once that our youngest sings at times wh...I noticed once that our youngest sings at times when he should be feeling bad about what he has done. I asked him once about it and he said he was cheering himself up. Would make sense except for the fact that he should be making things right instead!Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811548306583601019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-76002692298468960652009-02-25T19:03:00.000-06:002009-02-25T19:03:00.000-06:00I think she has it set in her head that she'll kno...I think she has it set in her head that she'll know her plan is working when it finally works!<BR/><BR/>I stop to imagine what it must be like to actually suffer long enough to HAVE RAD. You have to endure so much for so long. So, in her mind, keeping up this most recent game probably seems like a piece of cake.<BR/><BR/>I tend to walk around humming and singing and dancing, ESPECIALLY when I'm totally ticked off at her behavior. Helps me maintain myself. Well, today as she was not allowed special privileges, and I KNEW that she was not happy about her restrictions, I noticed her singing and swaying.<BR/><BR/>She's good. She's so very, very good.Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07276000726366302069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-27115691720497660512009-02-25T09:26:00.000-06:002009-02-25T09:26:00.000-06:00So hard to move past the trauma. So afraid to let ...So hard to move past the trauma. So afraid to let themselves feel safe.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811548306583601019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-71618341967497162022009-02-25T09:20:00.000-06:002009-02-25T09:20:00.000-06:00Me: How about if I treated you the way you treat m...Me: How about if I treated you the way you treat me?<BR/><BR/>Alyssa: You can't do that! You HAVE to be nice to me!<BR/><BR/>Me: Well if I have to be nice to you, why don't you have to be nice to me?<BR/><BR/>Alyssa: As she pauses very dramatically for effect.and gives me that "are you really that stupid" look.. You are supposed to set a good example for me!<BR/><BR/>Life is RAD land is never dull!Alyssa's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11004459693104286954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-67571461125740963972009-02-25T08:06:00.000-06:002009-02-25T08:06:00.000-06:00"i had a mama ih Haiti once. she got dead. we burn..."i had a mama ih Haiti once. she got dead. we burned her in a big fire. and that was it." this is my daily life.alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17987529367690926037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-58851074393790351842009-02-25T07:35:00.000-06:002009-02-25T07:35:00.000-06:00Hmmm. Is her plan working? ; )Hmmm. Is her plan working? ; )Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811548306583601019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134242791095743131.post-64851130860794230072009-02-24T16:12:00.000-06:002009-02-24T16:12:00.000-06:00Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.Today in therapy...Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.<BR/><BR/>Today in therapy ... again ... third verse - same as the first ...<BR/><BR/>"I don't WANT a bad mom. I just want everyone to THINK she is a bad mom so she'll let me do whatever I want."Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07276000726366302069noreply@blogger.com